Why LiewCF Couldn’t Get A Girlfriend
Few days ago I came across this post in LiewCF.com. I think instead of helping him to look for a girlfriend online, it’s better to point out the reasons “Why a blogger who earns 30k – 50k per month couldn’t get a girlfriend”.
Below are the reasons:
No social life
For someone who works alone at home, his social circumstance has been limited. How often does LiewCF step out his front door except collecting his cheque from mail box? I doubt that…
In order to know more girls, it’s good to know more friends. It just likes friends-get-friends campaign. The more friends you have (I mean new friends, neither your primary nor secondary school old farts), the more chances you have to meet your Mrs Wrong Right. Human lives together in organized groups or similar close aggregates.
So, don’t just stay at home. Go out and hug the wonderful world.
Not a romantic wolf
A guy who always saying he is not romantic, then he is truly not romantic.
Romantic or not, I think it’s not the key to get a girlfriend. If you’re not romantic, at least you must be humor enough to cheer their life. Humor means you can tell them some little jokes and make the relationship “joyful”. Communication is one of the big key in a relationship. Communicate means action or speech. It’s impossible to ask a girl to read your blog whenever you wants to tell her something.
Trust fate too much
If God created mankind, then mankind created fate. Angel won’t fall from sky to you house. Instead of waiting for a fate, why don’t hold your own destiny by your own hands? Spend more time to know further the apple of your eye. Take up your arms, fight for it!
No car
Girls are white-headed. We can’t expect them to spend 1 hour to put chemical mixture on their faces but in the end, take bus go to a high class restaurant. Imaging you just date a girl and in a bus which full of aunties, uncles, Nepal labors, Indonesian labors, students and the old bus driver. The atmosphere has gone. So does the mood.
Car is a weapon, a space, and also a pledge
You can hold a girl’s hand and play her fingers inside a car.
You can continue to chat with her when you reach her house’s gate inside a car.
You can reach her side anytime when she needs you.
You can guarantee her safety if she goes out with you.
You can produce a baby there too.
Conclusion
Sorry if I have been too harsh. But internal problems must be solved first before we market a “product”. Don’t you agree??
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iCalvyn said,
Wrote on September 23, 2007 @ 1:32 pm
having a car in KL are not good, traffic jam all around… this will waste his time for blogging…
Kay said,
Wrote on September 23, 2007 @ 1:48 pm
Calvyn, liewcf stays in Kluang. Not KL
Matchfingers said,
Wrote on September 29, 2007 @ 10:22 am
This is a great post for all the guys out there to read. =)
I would say it’s the first impression he make that matters. First, dress to impress. If he wants a girl that looks pretty and dresses well, obviously he needs to do something about his appearance (look and dress smart). Seriously, I do believe a geek can turn into a smart handsome guy if he invests some time and effort to know what to wear and what not to wear. I’m not talking about changing his entire look but to improve his current appearance. Hire an image consultant if it’s affordable.
Other than that, it’s good to be humble but always remember not to overdo it. Every self-criticism must followed by some positive actions to overcome it. If he’s not good in something, he should focus on how to improve that something. If he’s not romantic enough, probably he can read some romantic novels or watch romantic movies, or learn it from someone.
Learn from mistake. Why did the previous relationship couldn’t last? Find out the possible reasons and improve from there. He needs the never-give-up spirit and look-on-the-bright-side thinking.
Knowledge need to be built in all areas, not only on making money online. Most importantly, it’s the values that you add into your life. It’s good to learn new things/skills everyday and there’s a need to focus in all aspects to become a better person.
Above are just my personal thoughts..lols.
I wish him all the best in finding his dream girl =)
BZbody said,
Wrote on September 29, 2007 @ 3:36 pm
Why do we always think that getting a partner will actually make life better for us? I’ve few friends who are doing fine without a partner. They lead real productive lives, have their own car, own house, own freedom to do whatever they like whenever they like. They need not be scolded whenever they work for long hours or don’t spend enough time with their partners or be pull to attend ridiculous functions of their partners’ friends.
There are plenty of reasons why staying single will actually keep you sane!
But baseless ramblings aside, LiewCF (and all others reading this) if you wanna find yourself a gal, be ready to commit to her (cause they can really get on your nerves at times). And down the road, you may one day reason with yourself, do I want to submit myself (yes, submit) to this gal for my whole entire, miserable life forever more?! .. Just kidding, honey.
I’ve heard someone said before: set the trial period as 3 years, if by the end of 3 years you are not sure whether or not you want to be married to this person, then you really gotta buck up and make some changes. — Don’t quote me on that. I’m just the messenger.
BZbody Msgr
For my safety, I’d like to remain anonimus. Best wishes to all spouse-seeking people out there.